Do you love your church because it is your Christian "family"? How would you react if a consultant told your church that the most important thing you could possibly do is to quit thinking of yourselves as a family? Can you imagine why someone would counsel such a thing? Read here to find out.
(By the way, there are arguments to be made in favor of thinking of the church as a family that aren't mentioned in the article, but it is still really good food for thought.)